Saturday, December 31, 2016

Happy New Year's!!! / Mrs Duska Lovelace

Mrs Duska Lovelace
Pastor's Wife
Truth Baptist Church
Jefferson, Maine


Yesterday was the day that most of us began the goals we set this new year or as some may call them resolutions. Some of us may have set goals to do more exercising, reading, spending time with loved ones, quit a bad habits, etc. A few years back the Lord really spoke to my heart about the changes I was making. I would always make my decisions on what would make me feel good, instead of making decisions based on what God would want me to change. I began asking Him what changes I could make that focused on Him, areas in which I failed in the past year and could do better. Making the changes when God is the one who showed you makes it that much sweeter.

Whether therefore ye eat, or drink, or whatsoever ye do, do all to the glory of God.” I Corinthians 10:31

Every year as I seek the Lord there are a few verses that give the perfect prayer in asking God to show me areas in my life that I need to change and make better. As Pastor’s Wives I know we wear many hats and it can get overwhelming, after all, more hats, mean more areas that need work.
I love these verses:

Search me, O God, and know my heart: try me, and know my thoughts: and see if there be any wicked way in me, and lead me in the way of everlasting.” Psalm 139: 23-24

Create in me a clean heart, O God; and renew a right spirit within me.” Psalm 51:10

While reading these verses, was there anything that stood out specifically? There was to me and I know as each of you read them it maybe something different, but for me this year it was the word, “heart.” Have you ever thought of the importance of the heart? It is the organ that is monitored to determine life or death, it is the first major organ that forms and works in a baby, if anything is wrong with the heart it causes issues to other areas and makes them not function properly, it is where we ask Jesus to live and dwell when we are saved, just to name a few. The Bible speaks about the heart in many areas and tells us exactly what to watch for and how to keep it.

Here are a few ways that God is leading me to change my heart this year to make it more like Him.

H- Keep a Healthy Heart-
A merry heart doth good like a medicine: but a broken spirit drieth the bones.” Proverbs 17:22
A merry heart taketh a cheerful countenance: but by sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken.” Proverbs 15:13
All the days of the afflicted are evil: but he that is of a merry heart hath a continual feast.” Proverbs 15:15
Having a healthy heart is a vital part to our walk as christians. I know we all have different circumstances, but no matter what we can work toward having a merry heart. I know it sounds easier on paper and sometimes keeping a merry heart can be challenging, but staying away from negativity, gossip, studying the Word, praying and becoming closer to God will be what makes a merry heart, merry. Counting our blessing and remembering all that God has done for us, is an easy way to get started.

E- Exercise your heart daily-
Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life.” Proverbs 4:23
To keep a healthy heart we must exercise it daily. For our physical needs we need to keep it healthy, when our heart doesn’t function properly or isn’t healthy it causes many other problems in our body. Same things pertain to our spiritual needs. We need to keep it diligent by studying the Word of God, memorizing scriptures and praying. When our heart is exercised properly and is healthy, well nourished and close to God our issues are easier to handle and the outcome is much more rewarding.

A- “All In” Heart-
Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.” Proverbs 3:5-6
If you have been in the ministry for any length of time, then you know how important it is to go ALL IN. There are so many areas in our lives that we need to give to God and trust Him with. Our husbands, children, ministry, friendships, family, finances and health are just a few. It can be overwhelming, but when we trust Him with all of our hearts, recognize who He is and not try to do it all on our own, He directs every step. “God not only read our story, He wrote it.” We trust Him with our salvation, we need to trust Him with every area of our life. We can’t do that if He doesn’t have all of our heart.

R- Retaining Heart-
Bind them upon thy fingers, write them upon the table of thine heart.” Proverbs 7:3
Do you take time to memorize scripture? It is so important that we equip ourselves with God’s Word. The more scripture we have written in our hearts the better equipped and prepared we are to quote it when we are struggling or someone else is. It is so wonderful to be able to encourage yourself and others with scripture God has already given you to put into your heart. A great way to start is to memorize scripture with your children or grandchildren, I love it when my children can quote scripture and share their favorite verses with me and others.

T- Treasured Heart-
For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.” Matthew 6:21
What are your treasures? As a little girl I inherited a Hope Chest, most of you may have one as well. As I grew up I placed special treasures in it that I wanted to save for when I got older, for times like when I got married. Some of those items still remain inside my Hope Chest. Why? Because they have meaning, because I wanted to keep them safe and because I wanted to remember and share these special things with others. People and things that we treasure we invest time in and make them feel important. Do you treasure your calling as a wife, mom, pastor’s wife and friend? They are all such important roles and the people we gain in our lives by having these roles need to be treasured. Now imagine your heart as your Hope Chest and take care of it by keeping it healthy, exercising it daily, having it “All In” and retaining God’s Word, by doing these thing it will allow you to have a Treasured Heart. I want to know God’s heart so I can have a heart like His and be more like Him.

In 2017 what do you want to change to be more like Him?

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