Mrs Duska Lovelace
Pastor's Wife
Truth Baptist Church
Jefferson, Maine
Yesterday
was the day that most of us began the goals we set this new year or
as some may call them resolutions. Some of us may have set goals to
do more exercising, reading, spending time with loved ones, quit a
bad habits, etc. A few years back the Lord really spoke to my heart
about the changes I was making. I would always make my decisions on
what would make me feel good, instead of making decisions based on
what God would want me to change. I began asking Him what changes I
could make that focused on Him, areas in which I failed in the past
year and could do better. Making the changes when God is the one who
showed you makes it that much sweeter.
“Whether
therefore ye eat, or drink, or whatsoever ye do, do all to the glory
of God.” I Corinthians 10:31
Every
year as I seek the Lord there are a few verses that give the perfect
prayer in asking God to show me areas in my life that I need to
change and make better. As Pastor’s Wives I know we wear many hats
and it can get overwhelming, after all, more hats, mean more areas
that need work.
I
love these verses:
“Search
me, O God, and know my heart: try me, and know my thoughts: and see
if there be any wicked way in me, and lead me in the way of
everlasting.” Psalm 139: 23-24
“Create
in me a clean heart, O God; and renew a right spirit within me.”
Psalm 51:10
While
reading these verses, was there anything that stood out specifically?
There was to me and I know as each of you read them it maybe
something different, but for me this year it was the word, “heart.”
Have you ever thought of the importance of the heart? It is the organ
that is monitored to determine life or death, it is the first major
organ that forms and works in a baby, if anything is wrong with the
heart it causes issues to other areas and makes them not function
properly, it is where we ask Jesus to live and dwell when we are
saved, just to name a few. The Bible speaks about the heart in many
areas and tells us exactly what to watch for and how to keep it.
Here
are a few ways that God is leading me to change my heart this year to
make it more like Him.
H-
Keep a Healthy
Heart-
“A
merry heart doth good like a medicine: but a broken spirit drieth the
bones.” Proverbs 17:22
“A
merry heart taketh a cheerful countenance: but by sorrow of the heart
the spirit is broken.” Proverbs 15:13
“All
the days of the afflicted are evil: but he that is of a merry heart
hath a continual feast.” Proverbs 15:15
Having
a healthy heart is a vital part to our walk as christians. I know we
all have different circumstances, but no matter what we can work
toward having a merry heart. I know it sounds easier on paper and
sometimes keeping a merry heart can be challenging, but staying away
from negativity, gossip, studying the Word, praying and becoming
closer to God will be what makes a merry heart, merry. Counting our
blessing and remembering all that God has done for us, is an easy way
to get started.
E-
Exercise your heart daily-
“Keep
thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life.”
Proverbs 4:23
To
keep a healthy heart we must exercise it daily. For our physical
needs we need to keep it healthy, when our heart doesn’t function
properly or isn’t healthy it causes many other problems in our
body. Same things pertain to our spiritual needs. We need to keep it
diligent by studying the Word of God, memorizing scriptures and
praying. When our heart is exercised properly and is healthy, well
nourished and close to God our issues are easier to handle and the
outcome is much more rewarding.
A-
“All In” Heart-
“Trust
in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own
understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct
thy paths.” Proverbs 3:5-6
If
you have been in the ministry for any length of time, then you know
how important it is to go ALL IN. There are so many areas in our
lives that we need to give to God and trust Him with. Our husbands,
children, ministry, friendships, family, finances and health are just
a few. It can be overwhelming, but when we trust Him with all of our
hearts, recognize who He is and not try to do it all on our own, He
directs every step. “God not only read our story, He wrote it.”
We trust Him with our salvation, we need to trust Him with every area
of our life. We can’t do that if He doesn’t have all of our
heart.
R-
Retaining Heart-
“Bind
them upon thy fingers, write them upon the table of thine heart.”
Proverbs 7:3
Do
you take time to memorize scripture? It is so important that we equip
ourselves with God’s Word. The more scripture we have written in
our hearts the better equipped and prepared we are to quote it when
we are struggling or someone else is. It is so wonderful to be able
to encourage yourself and others with scripture God has already given
you to put into your heart. A great way to start is to memorize
scripture with your children or grandchildren, I love it when my
children can quote scripture and share their favorite verses with me
and others.
T-
Treasured Heart-
“For
where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.” Matthew
6:21
What
are your treasures? As a little girl I inherited a Hope Chest, most
of you may have one as well. As I grew up I placed special treasures
in it that I wanted to save for when I got older, for times like when
I got married. Some of those items still remain inside my Hope Chest.
Why? Because they have meaning, because I wanted to keep them safe
and because I wanted to remember and share these special things with
others. People and things that we treasure we invest time in and make
them feel important. Do you treasure your calling as a wife, mom,
pastor’s wife and friend? They are all such important roles and the
people we gain in our lives by having these roles need to be
treasured. Now imagine your heart as your Hope Chest and take care of
it by keeping it healthy, exercising it daily, having it “All In”
and retaining God’s Word, by doing these thing it will allow you to
have a Treasured Heart. I want to know God’s heart so I can have a
heart like His and be more like Him.
In
2017 what do you want to change to be more like Him?